Yeah, a lot of people do that; it annoys the heck out of me. On the other hand, I've been given the 'you just use it as an excuse to hate on her' speech myselfs once, when I pointed out that a female character was in fact badly written. There's a fine line, especially when people accuse others of something.

Sometimes characters are badly written, and mostly I love them anyway. Sometimes there's shows who have no plot, ridiculous storylines, and ludicrous logic, and mostly I love those, too.

Totally yes to what you say about Stargateverse gals.